Episode 72

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12th Sep 2025

Knowing When to Leave: The Hard Truth About Letting Go of Relationships

In this honest and thought-provoking episode of Heal with Kimile, Kimile Pendleton tackles one of life’s toughest decisions—when to walk away from a relationship or marriage. Whether it’s the glaring red flags of abuse, neglect, or betrayal, or the quieter pain of a love that has simply run its course, staying too long can cost you your happiness, your peace, and even your sense of self.

Kimile doesn’t shy away from the hard truths: Some relationships should end, even if there’s still love—or fear—holding you back. She explores the difference between a rough patch and a dead end, why “staying for the kids” can sometimes do more harm than good, and how to find the courage to choose yourself when the person you’re with no longer fits the life you want.

This isn’t about giving up—it’s about knowing when holding on is actually holding you back. If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s time to let go, this episode will help you find clarity, strength, and the permission to walk away when love isn’t enough.

Leaving is hard—but staying in the wrong relationship is harder. Tune in to know the difference.

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Heal With Kimile
Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.