Episode 73

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Published on:

15th Sep 2025

Carrying the Unthinkable: Healing After Shared Trauma

In this compassionate and timely episode of Heal with Kimile, host Kimile Pendleton explores the profound impact of being exposed to horrific events—whether firsthand or from a distance. Beginning with the traumatic murder of Charlie Kirk and the ripple effects on those who witnessed or were connected to the tragedy, Kimile discusses the heavy emotional toll such events take on the human spirit. She then expands the conversation to include collective traumas like 9/11, highlighting how unprocessed pain can silently shape—and often sabotage—our lives years later.

Kimile offers insight into why we must confront these deep wounds rather than bury them, and how avoiding grief, anger, or fear can lead to self-destructive behaviors, fractured relationships, and a loss of self. With empathy and clarity, she guides listeners toward safe and healthy ways to process trauma, rebuild a sense of safety, and honor their experiences without letting the past dictate their future.

This episode is for anyone who has ever faced the unthinkable—and is ready to reclaim their life from the shadow of trauma.

You don’t have to carry the pain forever. Tune in to begin your journey toward healing.

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If you want to make a positive change in your life, do some self-discovery, and realign your life, I invite you to explore my website, https://healwithkimile.com/ where we can embark on a journey together to uncover your true self, overcome challenges, and live a life aligned with your passions and purpose.

Links and resources:

Website:

https://healwithkimile.com/

My book is available on Amazon:

https://www.amazon.com/Re-framing-Your-Life-Becoming-Invincible/dp/1499538952

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About the Podcast

Heal With Kimile
Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
Let's embark on this healing adventure together, unraveling the threads of your past to create a tapestry of purpose and fulfillment.
Subscribe now and join a community of seekers and healers. Remember, your healing journey starts here with Kimile.

About your host

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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.