Episode 75

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10th Oct 2025

The Two Ingredients Every Relationship Needs: Admiration and Adoration

In this insightful episode of Heal with Kimile, host Kimile Pendleton explores the essential emotional ingredients that sustain a loving partnership. She discusses the profound yet simple truth that in a healthy relationship, men have a deep need to feel admired, and women have a fundamental desire to feel adored. When these core emotional needs are met, the bond between partners flourishes with respect, affection, and security.

Kimile delves into how relationships often begin to falter when these feelings of admiration and adoration are undermined, neglected, or taken for granted. She explains the signs that these pillars are crumbling and how their absence can lead to resentment, distance, and the difficult realization that the connection may be beyond repair. This episode is not just about diagnosing the problem, but also about understanding the profound human needs that, when honored, can either save a relationship or grant you the clarity to compassionately let go.

If you're wondering how to rekindle these essential feelings or are questioning the future of your partnership, this conversation offers a compassionate framework for finding your answer.

Tune in to understand the silent language of the heart that can make or break a relationship.

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Heal With Kimile
Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.