Episode 68

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15th Aug 2025

Rebuilding Trust: How to Truly Make Amends After You've Hurt Someone

In this accountability-focused episode of Heal with Kimile, Kimile Pendleton tackles one of the hardest relationship challenges: how to make things right when you're the one who messed up—especially when that mistake is as painful as infidelity. This isn’t about quick fixes or empty apologies, but the difficult, necessary work of true repair.

Kimile walks through what it really means to own your actions—without excuses, without blaming your partner, and without expecting instant forgiveness. She discusses the difference between saying "sorry" and actually being sorry, how to give your partner the space to feel their hurt without making it about your guilt, and why rebuilding trust requires consistent action, not just words. Most importantly, she emphasizes that growth isn’t linear—you’ll make missteps along the way, but the key is staying committed to doing better.

If you’ve hurt someone you love and want to genuinely make amends (not just ease your own guilt), this episode is a roadmap.

Real change starts with honesty—with yourself first. Tune in to begin the work.

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Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.