Episode 60

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Published on:

6th Jun 2025

How Grief Leaves You Vulnerable to Users

In this eye-opening episode of Heal with Kimile, host Kimile Pendleton shares a cautionary tale about a widower who rushed into remarriage only to find himself trapped in a web of manipulation. Still raw from loss, he fell for a woman who created constant conflict with his sons while playing the victim - all while enjoying the financial security he provided.

Kimile exposes the painful truth: predators can smell unresolved grief like blood in the water. She explains why men's natural desire to "rescue" often backfires after loss or divorce, attracting exactly the kind of people who will exploit that vulnerability. Through this powerful story, she reveals the red flags of being used in relationships, why time alone doesn't heal wounds, and how doing your inner work protects you from those who would take advantage of your kindness.

This isn't just about romantic relationships - it's about learning to protect your heart while it heals. If you've ever found yourself giving too much in the hope of being loved, or know someone who jumped into a new relationship too soon after loss, this episode could save you from making a costly mistake.

True healing can't be rushed - but predators won't wait. Tune in to learn how to guard your heart.

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About the Podcast

Heal With Kimile
Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
Let's embark on this healing adventure together, unraveling the threads of your past to create a tapestry of purpose and fulfillment.
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About your host

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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.