Episode 64

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18th Jul 2025

Divided Loyalties: When Parents Pull Children Into Marital Conflict

In this episode of Heal with Kimile, Kimile Pendleton shares a story of a family unravelling as a husband and daughters gang up on the wife and he undermines her position in the family.

Kimile explores why parents often unconsciously recruit children as allies during marital strife, the devastating emotional toll this takes on young psyches, and how these patterns echo through generations. She offers compassionate insight for parents recognizing themselves in this story - not to shame, but to illuminate a path forward. Through this cautionary tale, listeners will learn how to establish healthy boundaries, protect their children from adult problems, and find appropriate outlets for marital frustrations without sacrificing family unity.

This episode isn't about taking sides in a marriage - it's about protecting the innocent bystanders caught in the crossfire. For any parent who's ever been tempted to share too much with their children, or felt the sting of being excluded from their own family circle, Kimile provides both warning and wisdom.

The greatest gift you can give your children is a childhood free from adult burdens. Tune in to learn how to keep your marital conflicts where they belong - between the adults.

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Heal With Kimile
Welcome to "Heal with Kimile," the podcast where healing meets intuition and purpose. Join your host, Kimile Pendleton, a seasoned Professional Intuitive Counselor with over 30 years of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families toward emotional resolution and purposeful living.
Join her on this transformative journey as she delves into the heart of emotionally charged and complex cases, unveiling the profound insights that lie within. Known for her unique ability to connect with the Divine, She’ll share stories, techniques, and wisdom that can help you break free from past burdens, reframe your story, and design a life aligned with your true purpose.
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Kimile Pendleton

Kimile Pendleton is a full time Professional Intuitive Counselor, Podcast Host, Author and Speaker. She has maintained a practice for over 30 years and has counseled tens of thousands of individuals, couples & families. Kimile is known for her ability to resolve emotionally charged and complex cases and get right to the heart of the matter. She has a gift of intuitively sensing where people are stuck, in pain, or what future they are meant to live into. People seek her out for her ability to connect with the Divine. She has developed a healing method called, Life Realignment process, which helps people clear their past, re-frame their story and design a purpose-aligned life. She believes we all matter and we all have a purpose. Her offerings include: one-on-one and couple sessions, family healing sessions, 90 day coaching program on Divine Intuitive Practices, 90 day coaching program on Life Realignment, multiple webinars on Spiritually Clearing yourself and her popular program for struggling couples, Soulmate Second Chance.